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Words to Inspire You

During the course of life, there are times when all seems lost and you find yourself trapped in a downward spiral that you feel powerless to control.

It is during these often frightful and terrifying times that a sense of loss prevails; a sense that all is not as it should be and somewhere along the line you have lost the essence of who you are.

The search to find yourself and your life's true meaning can sometimes feel like an endless struggle. But we are all here for a reason, and life doesn't have to be about pain and suffering. There is so much beauty to behold, and an abundance of love to give. And there is also inner wisdom, the voice that speaks directly from your heart, which unfortunately we often ignore.

Yet it is this voice that holds the key to our future, to who we want to be. It represents our untapped potential to trust in our own uniqueness and individuality, in our ability to strive for and realise our dreams.

But we continue to fall into the trap of negativity; allowing ourselves to think about all that is not working in our lives, instead of focusing on all that is abundant. By doing this we are consciously allowing negative energy to lurch upwards and clutch hold of our hearts, dragging us into the darkness.

* IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE THIS WAY *

Only you have the power to change your life; and only you have the ability to catch those negative thoughts as and when they occur, and flick your thinking around, transforming your thoughts into strong, positive ideals.

There is so much power in positive affirmations, and allowing our imagination to take us places we sometimes dare not venture in everyday life. The reason we don't allow ourselves to truly live is fear. Fear represses our inner most desires; fear holds us back; fear makes us weak. But if you say no to the fear and start to put blind faith in yourself and the future by letting go of expectation, the sense of freedom can be enormous.

To help you learn how to do this, I have written the following inspirational messages.

If you are feeling lost and alone, or having trouble seeing your way clear, try repeating these to yourself and really think about what they mean to you. I promise, it will make a huge impact on the way you start to feel; and help you to carve a path for yourself that feels true and right for your inner being.

UNIVERSAL MAGIC - 22 INSPIRATIONAL MESSAGES
By Melinda Hutchings

~ Let the love in your heart be the inspiration for who you are ~

~ Live the path that is your heart ~

~ Love the people in your life who are close to you, understand you, love you, treasure you and protect you ~

~ Lose the people who hurt you, don't give you the same amount of time you give them, are selfish, shallow and unkind ~

~ At all times be aware of how you are feeling, what you are thinking, especially in those quiet moments, for these are the times when your heart and intuition are speaking to you ~

~ Be still, indulge silence, take the time to listen to what is going on inside. Your interior is far more powerful than what you protrude externally to the world. It is the essence of who you truly are ~

~ Be kind to yourself, nurture yourself, at all times be compassionate to not only yourself but those around you, for they too have their own internal heartache ~

~ Let go of the past; it doesn't exist ~

~ You have the power now, right now, to do whatever you want to do, be whomever you want to be ~

~ Embrace life and all its beauty. Don't deny yourself what you feel in your heart. It is yours if you want it ~

~ Trust your intuition ~

~ Stand tall and be proud of who you are and how far you have come ~

~ Heartache is merely a thread in the tapestry of life. It will pass and you will go on to bigger and better things - but don't lose the lesson ~

~ Don't be afraid to be who you are. There is no-one else in the universe the same as you ~

~ If people don't appreciate you, they are not open to your special gifts and are not meant to be in your life ~

~ Let go of past hurts. If it was meant to be it would have happened ~

~ Take your own advice, you are the best judge of what is right for you ~

~ Moments make memories ~

~ Never underestimate the power of love ~

~ The universe is on your side ~

~ Everything is as it should be~

~ Never try to go backwards. Universal law will move you forward in the direction you are supposed to go. Don't resist - accept it and flow with it ~

Copyright Melinda Hutchings 2004

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